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lex πŸ’Œ's avatar

hitting so

close to home for me πŸ₯Ίβ€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή

xins ꩜ αΆ» 𝗓 .ᐟ's avatar

πŸ₯ΉπŸ€ love you lexie!!

sanika ✢'s avatar

you called me out with this one. always falling for the ones who have zero chances of liking me back :') and yeah the first piece of advice really does work!! seeing everyone as your friend instead of a potential lover reduces sooo much pressure and less time is wasted in overanalysing every detail of a conversation hehe

xins ꩜ αΆ» 𝗓 .ᐟ's avatar

girl how i wish you didn’t too 😭😭 the pain is real ………and it’s funny how i only came across that when i was drowning in the depths of my despair in cutting off my first love 🫩 that was eye opening for sure, and it’ll definitely come into good use when (or if) a man ever enters my life again LOL

theinkspilled's avatar

This is such a relatable perfectly written piece!! β€œhow can i possibly trust someone with burdens i told no one about, when i know people come and go?” I felt this in my bones, in my throat, in my gut because of the countless times i thought this myself. LOVED IT❀️‍πŸ”₯

xins ꩜ αΆ» 𝗓 .ᐟ's avatar

aww thank you so much for reading ☹️ the avoidant in me does not trust myself to hold back once the flood gates open, so i just shut up πŸ₯Ή i guess that’s something i’ll have to figure out soon … sending you hugs 🀍

theinkspilled's avatar

I believe you will! Just the fact that you have so much self awareness and clarity on the topic really puts you in a perspective where if you feel like it with time you can transform that!!

xins ꩜ αΆ» 𝗓 .ᐟ's avatar

thank you so much love πŸ₯ΉπŸ€

emily 🐚's avatar

this is so me, i hate overthinking but it's literally my only way of thinking 😭😭